Early Relationship
We Do by Stan Tatkin
1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married by Monica Mendez Leahy
Essentials for Every Couples Bookshelf
Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson
Love Sense by Dr. Sue Johnson
Wire for Love by Stan Tatkin
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman
The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
Tell Me No Lies by Ellen Bader & Peter Pearson
10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives by Joe Kort
Intimacy & Sexuality
Passionate Marriage by David Snarch
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld
Mating in Captivity Esther Perel
Betrayal & Infidelity
What Makes Love Last by John Gottman
After the Affair by Janis Abrahms Spring
Healing from Infidelity by Michele Weiner-Davis
The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
Parenting
Between Parent and Child by Dr. Haim G. Ginott
Parenting from the Inside Out by Dr. Daniel Sielgel
Other Good Reads
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel VanderKolk
Good Morning, I Love You by Shauna Shapiro
The Noonday Demon by Andrew Solomon
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World by Alan Downs
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